[Arm-netbook] DDR3...

[lkcl luke]

tables 50 to 53 appear to indicate what's needed for the pins.  hooray.
http://www.ti.com/lit/an/sprabi1a/sprabi1a.pdf

this one appears to be the best guide (apart from the fujitsu one) on layouts:
http://www.micron.com/~/media/Documents/Products/Technical%20Note/DRAM%20Modules/4297tn4108_ddr3_design_guide.ashx

this one's got the best pictures :)
http://www.fujitsu.com/downloads/MICRO/fme/displaycontrollers/an-mb86r11-ddr3-pcbdesignguide-rev1-0.pdf

if anyone wants to play:
http://git.rhombus-tech.net/eoma

l.